Another great relationship story culled from the advice columns. A daughter with a history of relationships with men “who treated her badly” is now in a relationship with a “really nice guy.” So the parents do a little background check and find out everything the guy told her about his back ground is false!
As Louie said in “Casablanca”, I’m shocked!
If this daughter has not done any good work on herself, with a counselor or therapist hopefully, there is no reason to expect her to make different choices in men. Her subconscious programming that drives her choices will accurately pick out a lying, cheating scumbag in a room full of altar boys.
Her parents, who taught her everything she knows, will continue to “hope” she makes better choices, but it’s like hoping that your car won’t roll downhill with the brake off.
I repeat, the reason you feel strongly attracted to someone (not just sexually) is because that person fits your subconscious program. If the program is warped, all your choices will be warped and you’ll be wondering “What are they all like that?”
Don’t look for another relationship until you fix the program.
