patterns

Sometimes I think that being completely clueless is a requirement for a job as a newspaper advice columnist. In the latest fiasco that I found, the columnist missed three obvious clues to the real problem. The lady that wrote in described her problem like this: She got married 3 years ago, and then discovered he [...]

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In relationships, we all get angry once in a while. After all, nobody’s perfect. But there’s an important difference between anger and rage, and it’s pretty easy to figure it out. Anger is always about something that happened in the present moment, or close to it. You did something, or forgot to do something, and [...]

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