patterns

Here’s another way in which patterns from childhood show up in relationships, and are blissfully ignored by advice columnists. A lady writes in and says she’s known “Joe” for over 6 years and they’ve been dating and she has just one big problem with him. He contradicts everything she says, puts her down and makes [...]

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One of the things to remember about the people that you’re attracted to is that your subconscious mind is calling the shots. And the subconscious operates out of two major driving functions. The first is safety, and safety is measured by comfort, and comfort is measured by what is familiar. The important thing to remember [...]

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